Common Questions
Frequently Asked Questions
Do Complex Divorces Have to Go Through the Court?
Despite what you may think, or have heard, any divorce can be settled out of court. Even the most complicated financial, or custody issues can be worked out with a mediator. This is a more cost effective method.
Are Out of Court Settlements Fair to Both Men and Women?
Both men and women are successful during out of court negotiations. Catherine creates a safe and fair environment and will help craft an agreement that is in the best interest of both clients.
Does settling Out-of-Court Mean I Will Have to Settle for Less?
Couples generally end up dividing their assets along the same lines, regardless of whether they settled out of court, or fought in court. California is a community property state where courts have to divide marital property equally. In a mediated settlement, the parties are free to divide their assets, and debts, in any way that they choose. It does not need to be a strict 50/50 split. This gives the parties the ability to resolve their case specific to their situation.
Is the Courtroom the Best Place to Fight for my Kids?
As an experienced trial attorney, Catherine has seen the devastation to families who "fight" for their kids in court. This IS NOT the best solution. Mediated settlements ensure an outcome that both parents can live with, AND is child focused. This is better than having a Judge make decisions about your children.
Do I Have to be in the Same Room as my Spouse?
How Can Out-of-Court Settlement Discussions Work if we are not Even Speaking to Each Other?
While it may be ideal to meet face-to-face, the reality is that all or the majority of the out-of-court process can also be conducted separately. Mediation, however, is most effective and efficient if you can discuss the issues calmly in the presence of your mediator. Catherine is a very experienced mediator who will ensure that the mediation sessions are calm and peaceful for both parties.
Will a Mediator Pressure Me into Saving My Marriage?
Mediators are not therapists and their job is not to reunite spouses. Catherine focuses solely on helping both parties come up with a way to separate what is fair and workable.
Will I Be Getting Legal Advice from a Mediator, Instead of a Lawyer?
The mediator will provide legal information, not legal advice. The mediator will help guide the process so both parties can make decisions based on what is best for both individuals and the family. Usually the mediator will recommend that you review your final settlement agreement with an attorney before executing and filing the final document(s).
What if I want to mediate, but my spouse will not agree?
Catherine Lawler operates a full service family law firm. Call her at 714-564-9691 to discuss your non-mediation options and services; including divorces, child custody, child support and spousal support matters.
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