Many couples are finding the non-adversarial approach of mediation a welcomed alternative to the high financial and emotional costs of a contentious litigated divorce. An innovative divorce solution, mediation is a non-adversarial process that combines elements of mediation and collaborative law. The mediations are calm, respectful, and maintain the dignity of all parties. The focus is on finding solutions that benefit both spouses instead of declaring a "winner" and a "loser."
The mediated divorce process offers a safe, non-confrontational climate to promote courteous negotiation. Each spouse retains his or her own attorney and usually meets with them beforehand to decide upon their desired goals. The respective attorneys then relay their concerns, represent their interests, and offer proposals for resolution during negotiation meetings. The spouses are also present during these discussions to provide clarification and resolve mis-communications. The focus is always to work together amicably to settle the legal issues of a divorce with the least amount of friction possible.
If you are already divorced, but want to change your existing child custody, child support or spousal support orders, mediation is still your most cost effective option.
